Often, children are the losers after a separation. Gisele Bündchen and Tom Brady show that it can be different.
The nickname that Gisele Bündchen, 44, and Tom Brady, 46, have for their daughter is still the same. Mom and Dad may be divorced, but for both of them, 11-year-old Vivian remains “girlie girl.” The words with which the parents celebrate their daughter’s birthday on Instagram are full of tenderness: “Never stop being the unique person you are,” writes Tom.
And Gisele adds, “You make my life so much brighter.” It’s the same when their son Benjamin has a birthday. More than words, actions make Vivian and Benjamin feel loved, specifically: lots of quality time with Mom—or Dad. Tom Brady is currently with the kids in Montana: fishing in the river, climbing in a high ropes course. It’s about sharing adventures and creating memories together.
Tom Brady is Making Up for Lost Time with His Children
Tom has a lot to catch up on. During his time as an active NFL superstar, family life took a backseat to his training and game schedule. Even more, six weeks after his retirement in February 2022, the record-setting quarterback returned to his team—without sports, his life felt empty. Now, after Gisele left him, Tom Brady is forced to organize his time with the children himself. And in doing so, he discovers that he can do it. And he loves it. “Life is about true relationships and memories,” he said last August when he was in Africa with Benjamin and Vivian. It was an unforgettable trip for all three.
Gisele Bündchen and Her Ex Agree on What’s Most Important for the Children
There’s no competition over who offers the more spectacular vacations between the parents; their life with private jets and luxury villas is already privileged. Brady and Bündchen know that warmth and affection provide stability for the children during this time of change.
Does Gisele, who previously wished for more presence from Brady as a family man, sometimes wonder why she had to separate before he truly embraced his role as a father?
