My in-laws were in a serious car accident, and though they survived, they were badly hurt. My husband felt he needed to stay with them in the hospital, but I insisted, “I’m your wife; you should be here with me first!” He didn’t agree, so I went on our honeymoon by myself.
While I was away, I was stunned to see a Facebook post of him having coffee with a female friend. I called him right away and said, “It doesn’t look like you’re spending much time at the hospital.”
He sounded frustrated as he replied, “This picture was taken in the hospital cafeteria. My friend Amy came to support me, which is more than I can say for you!”
When I came back home ten days later, I found a note on the table that said, “It’s better if we take some time apart. It seems you don’t understand the importance of family.”
I’m heartbroken and feel like my marriage is falling apart before it even really started. I still think he should have been with me on our honeymoon. What should I do? – Suzy
3 thoughts on “I Refused to Cancel My Honeymoon Despite My In-Law’s Tragedy”
You are wrong on about every level
You are a real piece of art!! That time apart would be permanent if it was me!if he sticks around then you deserve each other!!!
You were in the wrong. You should have been there for your in-laws and your husband. You damage what relationship you had with them and it looks like your marriage is on the border of non existent. You owe a lot of amends. Maybe you’re not too mature and simply are a selfish person who isn’t ready for marriage because marriage is a give and take. Acknowledging your mistakes is a good start. I’m o ly co carved because your tone came out as very selfish. Good luck.