My Love Story with My Husband, in Which I Lost Him for 17 Years

On their 50th wedding anniversary, Tina and Patrick stood side by side, smiling at each other as their children, grandchildren, and friends clapped and cheered.

What everyone saw that night was a couple celebrating half a century of marriage, but what most of them didn’t know was that their love story had survived something almost impossible: a heart-wrenching 17-year separation that could have ended everything.

Their journey was one of miracles, heartbreak, and second chances. And tonight, Tina decided to tell the story herself.


“I’m Tina,” she began, her voice trembling with emotion. “I’m 68 years old, and right now, I’m surrounded by laughter, by my children and grandchildren, and by my husband, Patrick. We’re celebrating our 50th wedding anniversary, but if you knew the road we took to get here, you’d never believe it.”

She took a breath, looking at Patrick, his hand warm on hers.


Tina told them about the first time she met him, when she was just fifteen and the new girl in school.

It was her first day, and she had gotten lost trying to find her math class. A group of girls had shoved her books from her hands, laughing cruelly.

“Guess you didn’t see that coming, huh?” one of them sneered.

Tina’s face had burned with shame as she bent down to gather her books. That was when she heard a boy’s voice.

“Hey, leave her alone.”

She looked up and saw him — tall, with shaggy brown hair, standing there with such seriousness that the girls actually backed off.

“Pick on someone else,” he added. Then he bent down, handed her a book, and smiled. “You okay?”

Tina had managed a nervous nod. “Yeah. Thanks.”

“I’m Patrick,” he said, offering his hand.

“Tina.”

“Well, Tina,” he grinned, “math class is this way. Mind if I walk you there?”

That was the start of everything. From that day forward, they were inseparable.


At eighteen, they got married. It was simple but beautiful: a white chapel, family and friends, Tina in a hand-sewn dress her mother had stayed up nights to finish, and Patrick in his father’s old suit, a little too big at the shoulders.

When Patrick took her hand at the altar, he whispered, grinning, “You sure you want to do this?”

“Only if you do,” Tina whispered back.

A year later, they had a daughter. Patrick was so overjoyed he had lifted Tina off the ground and spun her around. “I’ll build the crib with my own two hands,” he promised.

But happiness is fragile. Patrick soon enlisted in the army. Saying goodbye nearly broke Tina.

“I’ll write every week,” Patrick said, holding her close. “And I’ll count down the days until I’m back.”

And he did come back, safe at twenty-two. Tina never forgot the way he swept her into his arms, their little girl giggling in his lap as they sat together in the backyard, feeling like their real life was just beginning.

But only a week later, Patrick planned a short mountain trip with his army buddies.

“Promise I won’t be long,” he said, kissing Tina’s forehead.

But he never came back.


Days turned to weeks. Then months. Search parties scoured the mountains, dogs tracked every trail, but there was no sign of him. One afternoon, a police officer knocked on Tina’s door.

Hat in hand, he said gently, “We think there might’ve been an avalanche. We’re not giving up, but… it doesn’t look good.”

Her knees almost gave way. She refused to believe it. Still, as years passed, the whispers grew: “gone,” “lost forever.”

By 36, Tina was raising a teenage daughter alone. Life had to move forward. Eventually, she met Tom, a kind, patient man who understood her past.

“You take your time, Tina,” Tom would say. “I’m not here to replace anyone.”

Slowly, Tina let him in. They built a quiet, happy life, and welcomed a son, Danny. Watching both her children grow filled her with joy again.

At 39, encouraged by her daughter who said, “You deserve happiness, Mom,” Tina agreed to marry Tom.

The ceremony was small, held in their backyard. Tina was inside putting on her dress when she heard a siren stop outside. Curious and uneasy, she stepped out.

There, stepping unsteadily out of a police car, was Patrick.

Thin, pale, fragile — but alive.


Her heart stopped. “Patrick…”

His voice was hoarse, trembling. “Hello, Tina.”

For a moment, the years melted away. She was eighteen again, staring at the boy she’d once promised forever to. She ran to him, tears streaming, catching him as he swayed.

That day, in front of her new husband, her family, and her guests, Tina’s world split in two.


Later, Patrick explained.

“There was… an accident,” he said slowly. “I slipped, fell, hit my head. When I woke up, I couldn’t remember anything.” His hands shook. “A woman found me. She told me I was her husband. And I believed her, Tina. I thought that was my life.”

Tina’s heart twisted as she listened. He had lived years in a cabin, isolated, with no memory of his real family. Until one day, it all came back.

“I went straight to the police,” he said. “It took time, but I never stopped trying to find you.”

The room was silent. Tina wept, torn between joy, anger, and disbelief. That night, she went to Tom.

“I’m sorry,” she whispered, her voice shaking.

Tom’s face was pale but kind. He only nodded, his heart breaking.


In the months after, Tina and Patrick tried to rebuild. It wasn’t easy. He was frail, traumatized, haunted by his missing years. Tina stood by him through therapy and sleepless nights. Their daughter, cautious at first, slowly let herself love her father again.

Two years later, at 41, Tina gave birth to another son, Sam. Holding him, she felt like fate had given their love a second chance. Patrick’s eyes glowed with joy as he cradled their baby.


Now, decades later, Tina looked around at her family, filling the house with laughter. Children played on the floor, glasses clinked, and old friends told stories.

Patrick squeezed her hand, steady and strong.

“It hasn’t been easy,” Tina said softly. “We lost years, we fought pain, we faced impossible choices. But love brought him back to me. And we made it — together.”

She smiled, tears in her eyes.

“And in the end, that’s what love is: holding on, even when the world tells you to let go.”

Allison Lewis

Allison Lewis joined the Newsgems24 team in 2022, but she’s been a writer for as long as she can remember. Obsessed with using words and stories as a way to help others, and herself, feel less alone, she’s incorporated this interest into just about every facet of her professional and personal life. When she’s not writing, you’ll probably find her listening to Taylor Swift, enjoying an audiobook, or playing a video game quite badly.

No Comments Yet

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.